COURTSHIP OR DUE DILIGENCE ?
When it comes to starting a purposeful affair with a
possible marital union we tend to apply caution and we
will try to know about the other person hence we say we
are in courtship.
But in my opinion I don't see courtship as a prerequisite
for choosing a spouse but I would rather go for due
diligence.
While courtship is regarded as a period where two
people in a romantic affair gets to know each other in
order to have a proper understanding of who they
are...due diligence can be said to be an outright
investigative process to clearly ascertain the persona of
someone.
Yes we know that neither of the two guaranty a great
marital union,many people could pretend during
courtship no matter how long the courtship lasts, but
due diligence will reveal a better picture of who that
person is.
In fact I believe that the secret to the longevity of our
parents marital union is due diligence where the two
families of both bride and groom meticulously take time
out to know relevant details of the family as well as the
person their son or daughter intends to marry.
For me I will go for due diligence rather than the flimsy
charade called courtship which is just a means of
wasting your time and indulging in endless sexual
gratification.
While most Men will choose courtship,I will employ the
ladies to go for due diligence on the man they intend to
marry to avoid time wasters and baseless courtship that
is never a sure pass for a good union.
I don't know if this makes sense.
