A popular Atlanta matchmaker Shae Primus who runs a
match making service, gave a weird advise top single black
women looking to settle down. She says black women
looking to settle down need to “open their minds” to dating
non-traditional men. Below is what Rolling Out magazine
wrote about what she said;
During a discussion on her company message board,
Shae Primus shocked members by suggesting women
give men who have experimented with same-sex
relationships a chance.
“It’s unfair that many women have had same-sex
experiences, but at the same time, they judge men
who have experimented with the same sex. Even if a
guy has had one experience, most women will totally
write him off as undateable.”
Primus says many of these women have gone through
bisexual phases, decided the lifestyle is not for them
and yet still expect a man to step up and marry them.
As a result of the double standard, she says men who
have experienced same-sex relationships or consider
themselves bisexual are forced to lie or simply give up
dating women. Instead of totally running at the first
sign of a same-sex past, Primus suggests women
have an open dialogue with a potential partner to
determine if he is still in that lifestyle or not before
totally writing him off.
