Majority of us living are carriers of various diseases;
infections and worst of all burdens. We fail to share
our problems with people around us because of the
general ego we (humans) exhibit. Sometimes, it
might not be the ego but the fear of been
stigmatized.
One thing I have come to realize is that humans irrespective
of our race or sex have one problem or the other but never
get solution because we conceal these pains to ourselves
alone.
I have suffered a lot in the past because of my ignorance
and shy personality but I have taken this bold step to share
my experience with you all readers so as to save some
millions of souls out there who is suffering from this
condition I was battled with even though I was presented
with a saving grace (www.uniquefitnessoptions.com) but I
was by then still blind to the truth.
I am 36 years old married with a year old daughter. I know
many would say not bad now nor too old an age for an
African man, but truth be told it was an underachievement in
terms of child rising for me considering the standard I had
set for myself initially. I came from a well to do home and
was very lucky to gain admission into university at the age
of seventeen were I studied history and international
studies. While I was in 200 level, few months to my
19thbirthday I was still a virgin but felt ashamed of my
status because of what older boys would say about having
fun with their lovers on campus. Since I had no girl friend of
my own I picked up some shameful practice which was
masturbation. I soon got addicted and never felt the urge for
having a girl-friend anymore, hence I was a very shy person
who cannot confidently walk up to a lady and ask her out.
As an addict, I would seek for any opportunity to induce
ejaculation which would mean making use of any available
opportunity either in the room alone, toilet, bathrooms, and
sometimes in the sitting room while watching adult movies.
The exercise was never a total success in many occasions
as I soon got nervous whenever I hear voices or footsteps
approaching I tend to hasting up the ejaculation so I can
gain the needed pleasure before the intrusion of the third
party. Often times the duration of these practice is 2
minutes and few seconds at max.
Gradually, it became a habit an even without any
interference I could no longer hold up for more than two
minutes before ejaculating. It got me so worried because I
could have my peers bragging of lasting for more than 20 –
30 minutes during sexual intercourse I knew quite well that
some might be exaggerating but not withstanding I could
not help that feeling of been weak or inferior among them so
I never told anyone about my condition.
I had my very first girl friend at the dinner party organized for
us the final year students. I was 20 years plus then while
she was 22. My mature look and lanky stature helped me
overcome the age gap between us. She told me that she
was a virgin,so, we never needed to have sex which was very
ok by me. We had our marriage immediately after our service
year since my parents agreed to sponsor it.
The marriage exposed my deficiency I did not have an
enjoyable honeymoon. I tried hard but could never get my
spouse to orgasm. She agreed to endure with me and we
began to seek for solution. I tried so many local herbs but it
never worked all I achieved was quick erection but not
lasting sex life. I was shy to open up to my family doctors. I
stayed long on the internet but never came across this life
changer ( www.uniquefitnessoptions.com )
So I began to try other means I could remember then how
some would say they use drugs to enhance this so I self
medicated on clomipramine,dapoxetine and sildenafil. These
drugs were not so easy to get without doctor’s prescription
so I would buy a handful doze of ‘’TM’’. I soon abused these
“SSRIs”. I must be honest this almost ruined my life
completely as it made me hyper active. On most occasions
my wife got tired of my condition and deserted me. I
eventually had a diminishedlibido as an effect of over reliant
on the drugs.
I had no choice now but to open up since my condition has
worsen, I did not tell our family doctor since I don’t want my
parent to know but it wasn’t easy at the same time. The
doctor warned me to stop completely the intake of cigarette
or alcohol and began a therapy with me. I could feel a
change in my system but it was rather too slow and most
times I feel I still suffer from low sex drive despite my
replacement therapy with various testosterous. I lost my
confidence as a man I decide not to re marry.
THE TESTIMONY
On 21st of October 2015 I was home in my parent house
to mark my 35thbirthday with them all when I overheard my
younger brother friend telling him how is elder brother got
saved from similar issue of quick ejaculation and that I have
suffered from for many years at this point I was no longer
shy I quickly cut in and met with my brother in person. He
gave me this website and guaranteed me full recovery which
I never believed was possible. I eventually visited the link
www.uniquefitnessoptions.com , I visited the site and was
well accepted. I opened up completely and was placed on
some supplements which did not take me more than three
(3) weeks to gain my natural but boosted active self. Today I
am happily married with a beautiful daughter. I feel so
indebted to Sanmi my brother’s friend for showing me the
way out.
