Reading body language is not that difficult. Our body
language can often give clues as to what we are really
thinking and both guys and girls, consciously and
subconsciously, send messages to members of the
opposite gender when they are flirting.
Some of these signs are common to both genders, like
keeping eye contact, but some are unique to just one of
the genders.
Here are 10 of the signs to watch out for, if you want to
spot when someone is flirting with you:
1. His chest
Men like to face up to whatever is of interest to them, so
watch for which way his chest is pointing, if you want to
know if he’s interested in you. If he is, then you will
notice that his chest always seems to be pointing
toward to you, even if he’s not even talking to you at
that particular point in time.
2. Her lips
For the girls, the lips are often the easiest sign to spot.
When a girl gets aroused or excited, then her lips will
become dry, so watch for the biting or licking of the lips.
Licking of the lips is also a way of drawing attention to
them and it’s a definite sign that she is flirting.
3. His hands
When a man is interested in a girl, he will start to try and
make himself look more powerful and attractive. One of
the ways he will do this is by placing his hands on his
hips and standing tall. Not only he is trying to look tall
and powerful, he’s also drawing attention to his hip
region!
4. Her hair
When a girl runs her hands through her hair or is idly
playing with it, then she is sending two messages. If
she’s looking at a guy while she does it, then she is
interested but, if she is looking around the room, then
she’s getting bored!
5. His hair
A guy won’t usually play with his hair but he can still
give the game away with it. He will want to check that
his hair looks good, if he’s interested in a girl, so he will
be grooming his hair with his hands.
6. Her eyelids
A girl batting her eyelids isn’t just a cliché. If a woman is
interested then her eyelids will blink faster than usual
and it is a definite sign that she is flirting.
7. His or her touch
Both genders will do anything to find an excuse to touch
each other when they are flirting. It will be subtle
though, like a touch on the other person’s arm, when
talking.
8. His stance
This is another classic way that a man will show his
interest in a girl. As with the hands on the hips, he will
be trying to look big and strong, so he will probably be
standing with legs wide apart. Basically, he’s showing
off and flirting!
9. Her face
Women can’t help expressing their emotions on their
face. A woman who is interested in a man will become
more animated in her conversation and in her facial
expressions. She will use her eyebrows, eyes and lips,
as well as her voice, to communicate her interest.
10. His and her eyes
And finally, for both genders, the eyes will be saying a
lot. If someone looks into another person’s eyes, then
they are being open and honest and they want that
person to trust them. You will also notice people that
are flirting grabbing furtive glances toward the other
person. In other words, they can’t keep their eyes off!
How guys and girls use body language to flirt? Do you
want to add some other tips and body language
meanings to our list?
