Nigerian gay right activist, Bisi Alimi has described his
childhood as a not so happy one, which he is proud of,
nevertheless. In continuation of his gratitude list, the groom-
to-be posted a childhood photo on Instagram and wrote:
"Day 6 of 30 days to my wedding of 30 things to be
grateful for. Today I want to be thankful for my
childhood. Many times we concentrate on the now
and forgetting the journey it took to get to now. The
laughter, the joy, the pains and the tears.
My
childhood was not perfect and I am happy it was not,
but it was a journey I am proud of.
I carry my joy and pains on the sleeves but most
importantly, my childhood taught me what matters in
the world. The essence of compassion, love and
empathy. I learnt that sitting on the fence was not a
neutral act. That silence is not golden.
That boy can
not and should not always be boys at the expense of
girls. That I can play with dolls, pink dolls, pain my
face and catwalk. Yes, sometimes I get beaten for it,
but the hard headed boy I was, my passion and not
the rejection was my childhood driver. As a loner,
growing up in my head and in my world, I hardly
make excuse for my action. I was thought to say
sorry when wrong and never to say it unless I am
sure I am wrong. I spent my childhood being a child
and maybe that's why, as a adult, I am still a child.
Get angry like a child, smile like a child, think like a
child, eat like one, sleep like one, and perform like
one. I am Peter Pan but with the vision of an adult.
Dear Ademola, Ojo, Kazeem, Iyanda Alimi, thanks for
making the adult that is Adebisi Ademola Alimi. Next
month I will marry my husband with the spirit of a
child, will laugh with that spirit, enjoy the moment
that my childhood has spent 41years preparing for
my adulthood. In the presence of my friends, families
and loved one, with shine on my face like a proud
child, I will look into the eyes of my lover and say; I
DO!
